I don’t know that I would diagnose Macy as “spirited”, but she certainly displays some spirited dimensions from time to time. After reading about how to parent a spirited child, I realize that how we handle home renovation can make or break how it goes over with Macy. Her top priority- pink bedroom walls. Ours, about 100 other projects.
I was thinking that it would be fun to move her one night after she falls asleep to the guest room and then proceed to paint her room for a big reveal in the morning. Then I remembered that the book I read said spirited children can have strong negative reactions to surprises. They become overwhelmed.
At the other end of the spectrum is letting her help- which could be disastrous. Try explaining to a 4 year old that the color will look different once dry.
I think the way to go is to maybe narrow down the swatches to a few I can live with and let her pick. Then explain our plan to paint part of the wall in the next few weeks. This sets her expectations, while giving us some flexibility on a deadline.
Any advice? Please comment…